People come into your life for a  reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will  know what to do for that person.



When someone is in your life for a  REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to  assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,  to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a  godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be.  Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this  person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.(kasama na din dun mga x-gf/bf  natin sa buhay o di kaya mga  x friends  natin na thru that way din naman natoto tayo maging more stronger thru them.ika nga experience diba.
Sometimes they die (huhuhu na alala ko tuloy parents ko).
Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and  force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has  been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move  on.

Some people come into your life for a  SEASON, because your turn has come to
share, grow or learn. They bring you  an experience of peace or make
you laugh. They may teach you something you  have never done.(cguro yung mga times na nasa high school days or college days na maraming kalokokohan kayong ginawa with some friends,gaya ng pag inom,cigs,weeds!??? at kung anu-ano pang mga bagay na nagawa mo  that time with them.)They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy(kagaya ng  first love o di alam nyo na yun hahahhaha).  Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.   LIFETIME relationships teach  you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon
in order to have a solid  emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person  and put what you have learned to use in
all other relationships and areas  of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.Yan tinatawg natin bestfriends for life walang iwanan kahit anong mangyari sa hirap at ginhawa kumbaga.o dikaya you have found the right love with whom you can share the rest of your life.Thank you for being a part of my  life,whether you were a reason, a season  or a lifetime.

Thank you,
anonymous69

…someone asked how a girl can survive a break-up…tough question to answer but there are ways to cope with a love lost…

...naisulat ito sa gitna ng pagluha at pagsinghot… sa pagharap s mga hamon sa buhay lalo na when your down... God sends angels to pull you up...friends that will try their best to make you smile. believe it or not these are words of wisdom ika nga, ewan ko kung kapupulutan ng aral pero hopefully mapapangiti rin kayo. reasons (valid or not) to move on after a break up…

- IT IS HIS LOST NOT YOURS...

where can  he find someone like you beautiful inside and out...
22ong tao d maligno...
buti na lang friends tayo...nahawa ka sa ganda namin
 
- HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOUR LOVE...

 nagmahal ka ng 100% , you did not give up e siya d nya tinapos ang exam (siguro nawalan ng tinta ang ballpen o kaya di nakapagreview)
 
- DON'T KEEP IT INSIDE...CRY...TAKE YOUR TIME...
i'll just buy pandesal and dairy cream, pagbalik ko tapos na yan

 - TALAGANG GANYAN ANG BUHAY ( may kasamang buntunghininga pa yan pagsabi) (mas malinaw na translation: ANO NA NAMANG KATANGAHAN YAN!!!)

 - IF A DOOR CLOSES A WINDOW OPENS... pero don't enter sa window, mapagkakamalan kang magnanakaw  - KAYA MO YAN, IKAW PA... nakaya mo nga presence namin sa life mo all these time...alam namin mataas tolerance mo sa pain hahaha

 - YOU ARE JUST BLEEDING, YOU ARE NOT DEAD... gusto mo tuloy ko para matapos na paghihirap mo, ano method gusto mo???

 - HE DOESN'T REALIZE YOUR WORTH, HE DOESN'T DESERVE YOUR TEARS... kami alam namin worth mo..kasi nauutangan ka namin...siya hindi

 - THERE ARE PEOPLE NA DADAAN LANG SA LIFE MO... too bad dumadaan lang lagi, ikaw  naiiwan (cry ako) wag ka mag alala di ka naman nag-iisa..naiwan din kami (sabay sabay cry)

 - D SIYA MAGIGING MASAYA...HE LET YOU GO... kami ang happy now may time ka na para sa amin...yehey!

- YUN PALA PINAGPALIT SYO...LAMANG KA SA PALIGO malabo pala mata nya...

-THEY SAY IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE SET THEM FREE
Pag di siya bumalik iyak uli tayo (bukas po ulit...mhirap magtype pag umiiyak)

 

          *from my friendster blog
    

         redsunset

Lahat tayo merong mga pangarap sa buhay…. May kanya kanyang gustong marating. Lahat ata gustong maging BILL GATES..HEHE... TEKA pangatlo na lang pala si Bill Gates sa pinakamayaman!    Inaamin ko… isa akong ordinaryong probinsyano. Bilang isang probinsyano dami kong naiisip kung pano magkaroon ng madaliang pera. Mainipin kasi ako.  Di uso sakin ung kasabihan PATIENCE is a virtue.      

 Easy Money? JAPAN agad naiisip (di ikaw KULAS pinaparinggan ko)! haha... Ang cheap cheap ng dating pero sumagi talaga sa isip ko yun.  Sabi kasi madali lang pera dun.   Kapitbahay namin JAPAYUKI...gumanda ang mukhang alimasag dati. Putimputi ang mukha at talo pa ang may hepa sa dami ng ginto sa katawan.  Nakapagpatayo ng magandang bahay at nagkaroon ng lupain.  Syempre ako na mukhang pera gustong gumaya din...ooopps plastik lang ung di naiingit sa kapitbahay na may magandang bahay at sasakyan....  

Since naisip ko na ring mag JAPAN binigyan pa akong tips ng kumag.... Dapat daw maging kaaya-aya hitsura ko...Kaaya-aya? bakit di ba kaaya hitsura ko? Hhhhmmm napaisip 2loy akong manalamin.   Anak ng tipaklong TAMA ang dating bisogo!...   Mukha akong kalansay na di mo mawari? Hair style ko pa dati yung mala-JP(JOSE RIZAL)...pananamit ko pa promding promdi...at halos lahat ng damit mana kay itay! Di ko alam pano i-improve eh wala naman akong pera pambili ng magagandang damit at worst di ko alam anong damit babagay sakin... Ni boutique nga di ko pa napasukan...haha palengke lang ako namimili ng damit dati.  Pambahay ko ung bigay ng mga konsehal.  Minsan ung mga produkto pa ng unilever at procter and gamble philippines gamit gamit ko pa sa eskwela...isipin mo na lang gano kasagwa mukha ko dati.   Matindi pa kailangan daw ng FULL BODY SHOT pix?
Anak ng kuting eh 1x1 nga lang di na kaaya-aya ung full body shot pa kaya?   Kahit anong gawin ko wala bagsak talaga...Iniisip ko baka bago ako pumasok sa audition room abay THANK YOU na agad maririnig ko...pag minalas malas at nagpupumilit baka naman bulyaw na maririnig ko...kahiya naman ata un...   mga panahong yun aminado na ako di talaga ako ka gwapohan at di rin katangkaran... At walang walang appeal...lahat ng malas ata nsa akin na...kaasar! Kaya erase erase muna ng ideyang mag JAPAN...

  Isa pang option ay makipag chatmate...haha.. yan ang patok sa probinsya...Kahit matatanda na maging asawa basta amerikano! tabi tabi sa matatamaan... hehe…Pero pano naman makikipagchat? eh baon nga wala eh.. pakikipag chat pa? haayyzz buhay mahirap nga naman....   Since wala talagang physical appeal....balik sa dating gawi... aral! hehe panlaban yan ng mga walang hitsu na katulad ko...Salamat sa dios at kahit mejo pangit eh may utak din.  Academic Scholar sa college.. putek mantakin mo naman! Kaibigan ko lahat ng teacher kaya ayun exempt sa exam lagi lalo na pag finals... pero alam nyo ba? Magaling din ako mangodigo dati at mangdoktor ng exams...kahiya!   Tapos mag kolehiyo ayun at paghahanap trabaho ang aatupagin? Hirap nga naman ng buhay! Hirap palang makipag sabayan sa mga taga syudad..Sila kabisado na ang pasikot-sikot sa lugar samantalang ako... ni pagsakay ng jeep hirap na hirap…Huhh! buti na lang at may nagkamaling nag hire sakin pagkatapos ng 5 buwang paghahanap ng trabaho.  unang work? Sa manila ang destinasyon di ba. Astig! Feeling ko lahat ng kaklase ko inggit sakin.. hehehe joke lang. 
Dito ko unang nakaranas sumakay sa eroplano at tumapak sa manila...O sige and the rest is history...
Dito na din kumapal mukha ko..At this young age masasabi ko I have made it... (engles ata un!) Di porke probinsyano walang mararating at walang kinabukasan... Di kailangang mag japan o kaya mag asawa ng puti para marating ang tagumpay...

BOW!

ANONYMOUS BLOGGER

Love is in the air. Feel it, try it and take the risk.  I just want to share this amazing thought of love that struck me a lot and may inspire us to love in a humble way. (‘-’)We are supplied with resources telling us how an ideal relationship should be, or how an ideal man should be, but when you stepped in to this so called love relationship there, reality strikes. You’ll try to find in your man the qualities you have read from the books and even try hard to make him so, just to fit in to what had been programmed in your mind and when you found out that he’s not at all like him, then you panicked , as if you had made the worst decision of your life in taking him as your man… and when you failed to “transform” him, you’ll run away and try to find another ,but to your disappointment, nobody fits in to your sets of standard.A decision to love someone requires courage after considering different aspects and you found out that “he’s 80% the kind of man you like”, then it’s worth trying. Inch by inch, take the courage with you. The decision is made even when “loving feeling” is not present all the time. It’s when you can see beyond his weaknesses, you see through his imperfection.Said Susan Page: "If you seek love, you have to be willing to accept the whole package, the work, and the struggles as well as the joys. Of course, it is difficult aspects of love that you fear, not the fun. But perhaps the saddest choice of all is to seek only the pleasure and fun of love and to escape as soon as fear or vulnerability arises. Such a life is like eating only sugar all day long with its sweet taste but it’s all complete lack of nutrition."If it is real love, then you must be growing while in the relationship. And remember growing comes with pain and sufferings. The more you can endure, the stronger you become. The more you know your man, the clearer you see the reasons why GOD has put you together… the deeper the love gets. You may choose to take the unknown path where not so many had been or shall I call it on its fearsome term RISK. The outcome of your decision is not far beyond the mind can conceive nor you may not see any ray of light coming from any direction. But this is what life is all about. If you remain cautious, protecting yourself from being hurt and rejected, which, we know for a fact, you couldn’t do all the time, and then you will miss the most wonderful gift given to every human being…LOVE.“There is nothing more worthwhile in life than the risk you take.”This is where we learn that LIFE DOESN'T END WHERE OUR HEARTACHES BEGIN. THERE'S NO FUTURE FOR A RELATIONSHIP OF LIES AND SELFISHNESS. YOU DON'T HAVE TO FORGET SOMEONE YOU LOVE. WHAT YOU NEED TO LEARN IS HOW TO ACCEPT THE VERDICT OF REALITY WITHOUT BEING BITTER OR SORRY FOR YOURSELF. YOU WOULD BE BETTER OFF GIVING THAT DEDICATION AND LOVE TO SOMEONE MORE DESERVING.IF YOU LOSE LOVE, IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU HAVE FAILED IN LOVE. CRY IF YOU HAVE TO, BUT MAKE SURE THAT TEAR WASHES AWAY THE HURT AND THE BITTERNESS THAT THE PAST LEFT YOU WITH. LET GO OF YESTERDAY AND LOVE WILL FIND ITS WAY BACK TO YOU.Sometimes I tell myself, ‘only GOD can do that’…but… if HE gives us the strength to do such a task, who are we to refuse? Besides, it will leave us only two choices: WOUNDED or HEALED.Thanks for spending your time in reading this.

YAHD

It is certainly funny and puzzling when people starts labelling you a PERFECTIONIST. As really it is a big word to expand and meaningful for me and I certainly believe that it is something I need to asses in that point of time of why I had been remarked as a PERFECTIONIST repeatedly! What makes me wonder is that when I am intending to achieve something that I had been working on for a long time, and turned out to be succesful,Voila! ( in french ) automatically I will be getting feedback from people I am a PERFECTIONIST. Well let me tell you about the whole process in which I have concluded to my theory of why people perceive to this word PERFECTION! I am sure that many of us go through process of trial and error, for sure it will be definitely a boring planet and less challenging world if we do not come across trial and error, process and product, pros and cons! Either all for some when you are labelled a perfectionist it may be positive or a negative feedback. It is definilety a reputable testimonials about your persona and character. But as an individual and my thoughts, often I would find this quite intriguing in a positive way, especially when it is constantly a repeated remark from people you know well. Let me give you an example of a current well known person that may spare your thoughts about perfectionist. Angelina Jolie? Now she had been through alot of trial and error all throughout her hollywood exposure. With drugs, lesbian encounter and marrying and divorced the old fart! ( forgot his name sorry!) It may be her past history, but how do you see Angelina then and now? Not so perfect then right? But her current status as a UNICEF ambassador, and Mrs Brad Pitt with a cute baby and twins alongside their adopted kids from third world, and millions of dollars and investment in her hollywood hay days. Is she righteous to be a current perfectionist? intriguing right! Overall I think that becoming perfect does not mean this was a deliberate action. Perfectionist is bigger and does not just cover a part of your life achievement and goals. It is certainly a long process and  has values to justify being perfect. You may have the perfect life in which covers your finance, family, history and your carrer and so fort. But is being perfect covers your whole aspects and concepts in life? Simple example "Am I trully happy?" I could carry on deeper looking through this topic,these are my thoughts that makes me a strong individual. my conclusions,in most occasions if somebody called me Miss perfectionist, I would simply smile and say "thanks, I'm flattered" However I would simply mumble to myself " You dont know the trouble I had been through to go this far!" At the end of the day most people would say "NOBODY IS PERFECT." Besides,we tend to misinterpret trying to live in a perfect world,but really what we are trying to imply was that we are trying to live in a better world and a  better life, hence the quality life.
What do you think? How would you deal this? Thanks for your time and attentiveness in reading this.

Thank you..

SHAULA

I love music that's why I had the courage to produced  this site, because music is beautiful and MUSIC IS OUR UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE! It certainly makes me happy and joyous, I can not express words to fully describe my passion for music. It is an absolute fullfilling spare time listening to sounds, either in the car, mp3, pc or watching mtv. I am crazy about RnB and hip hop sounds.I know that we have great preference for music like rock, jazz, ballad, pop,underground sounds etc. but surely we all have the fullfilling trip when we have the moment listening to our fav songs! I hope you like what songs and music I have provided, I am currently still in a learning process with the overall site and domain. So please bear with me, sit back and relax and enjoy the sound trippin! ohhh and yah, come for a chat on my "TAMBAYAN" section.

HERE IS A LITTLE POEM ABOUT MUSIC... FOR ALL MUSIC BUNNIES!

Music is a form of energy, like the sun or a hug from a loved one.
Music is the voice through which spirits speak,
using a language that is beyond words,
a music that is beyond notes.
Music is a gift from God, Sounds so sacred filling you up with the Holly
Spirit!
It opens the soul to visions of bright revelation,
Music is the vehicle wherein humankind journeys..
Without music, our lives would be endless and trapped in a boredom of
solitude!

thanks and enjoy,

AL