People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.(kasama na din dun mga x-gf/bf natin sa buhay o di kaya mga x friends natin na thru that way din naman natoto tayo maging more stronger thru them.ika nga experience diba.
Sometimes they die (huhuhu na alala ko tuloy parents ko).
Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to
share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make
you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done.(cguro yung mga times na nasa high school days or college days na maraming kalokokohan kayong ginawa with some friends,gaya ng pag inom,cigs,weeds!??? at kung anu-ano pang mga bagay na nagawa mo that time with them.)They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy(kagaya ng first love o di alam nyo na yun hahahhaha). Believe it, it is real. But only for a season. LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon
in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in
all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.Yan tinatawg natin bestfriends for life walang iwanan kahit anong mangyari sa hirap at ginhawa kumbaga.o dikaya you have found the right love with whom you can share the rest of your life.Thank you for being a part of my life,whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Thank you,
anonymous69